The 2:2 Container โ€” The Sacred We ยท Six months with Mike & Courtney
The Sacred We ยท The 2:2 Container

Six months.
One couple.
Both of us.

Our most intimate work

For the couple ready to come home to each other โ€” and stay home.

Six months Bi-weekly ยท 90 minutes WhatsApp between sessions

You're fighting more than you used to. And underneath it all, you still love each other.

There was a time when this didn't feel so hard. When you could read each other across a room. When you laughed easily. When safety between you was just there โ€” the ground you both stood on without having to think about it.

You're not sure when you lost it. A thousand small things โ€” life pressures, parenting, the things one of you said that landed wrong, the things the other didn't say that should have. Now there's distance. There's bracing. There's fighting that didn't used to be there.

And yet โ€” you still love each other. Underneath every argument, every shutdown, every moment of distance, the love hasn't gone anywhere. It's just become hard to reach.

You want to find your way back to it. You're just not sure how.

Sacred relating is using the medium of the relationship for our own awakening.


โ€” Mike & Courtney
Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren โ€” looking at each other

What this actually is.

Two-to-Two is the most intimate work we hold.

Six months. One couple. The two of us โ€” Mike and Courtney โ€” together with the two of you. Not a coach and a client. Not a therapist and a couple. A partnered marriage holding space for a partnered marriage, in the same room, week after week, until what was hidden becomes seen.

We work the way we live: connection before communication. Before any hard conversation, any repair, any teaching โ€” connection first. Without it, words are performance. With it, the marriage starts to remember itself.

This work is the bridge. The safe ground you stand on while you remember each other. The container where the fighting can soften, the bracing can release, and the love that was there in the beginning can come home.

This isn't therapy. It isn't a workshop. It's a six-month initiatory journey for couples who want their love to be strong enough to hold life, healing, intimacy, conflict, family, and purpose โ€” without losing themselves or each other.

The shape of the six months.

The Sessions

Bi-weekly ยท 90 minutes.

Every two weeks, the four of us meet live. Ninety minutes. Both of us with both of you. Thirteen sessions across the six months.

The same eyes. The same ground. The same arc โ€” across six months of becoming.

Between Sessions

WhatsApp ยท five threads.

A WhatsApp ecosystem connects us between live sessions. Five threads, open all six months:

  • A shared group โ€” all four of us
  • You with Mike, directly
  • You with Courtney, directly
  • Your partner with Mike, directly
  • Your partner with Courtney, directly

You're not buying sessions. You're entering a container.

Who this is for.

  • You love each other. That hasn't changed. What's changed is the safety, the ease, the ground that used to be there.
  • You're devoted to doing the work it takes to create a thriving relationship โ€” for each other, for your family, for the life you're building.
  • You're both willing to take personal responsibility for your own material โ€” what you carry, what you bring, and how it lands in the relationship between you.
  • You want to experience the goodness of life together โ€” and somewhere in you, you both know it's still possible.
  • You're both in the room. Not one of you dragging the other in. Both of you, all in.

Who this isn't for

This work isn't for couples where one partner is dragging the other in. It isn't a quick fix, and it isn't therapy. If you need acute clinical support, or you're not both saying yes โ€” we're not the right people, and we'll tell you that on the call.

Mike Elliott and Courtney Wren โ€” The Sacred We

Mike & Courtney.

We're partners โ€” in life, in parenting, in this work. We didn't build The Sacred We from theory. We built it from the ground we were standing on.

Courtney is a relational somatic therapist with seventeen years in the field โ€” she holds the depth, the nervous system, and the mystical thread. Mike is a relationship coach and a men's coach, with over fifteen years of coaching and more than a decade deep in men's work โ€” he holds the masculine presence in the room: the structure, the directness, the ground.

Together, we host The Sacred We Podcast, lead retreats and intensives, and walk with the couples in our most intimate work โ€” the 2:2 container.

This is the deepest container we hold.

The investment.

Pay in Full

The container, one payment.

$15,000
CAD

One payment, beginning of the container.

We'll walk through the financial logistics together on the discovery call. There's no surprise โ€” only clarity.

What couples are saying.

We came in not fighting โ€” just exhausted. We left able to actually hear each other. The work is changing things we'd convinced ourselves were just "the way we are."

A couple in our
six-month container

The way they hold us โ€” separately and together โ€” has rebuilt the trust between us. We're not in survival mode anymore. We're in love, again, on purpose.

A couple in our
2:2 container

I didn't think I could feel her the way I do now. I didn't know that was a thing I'd lost. Mike showed me how, and Courtney helped her find me again.

A couple from
our community

We'll see you on the call.

We're so glad you're here.

The fact that you've read this far โ€” and that both of you said yes to a conversation โ€” tells us something about where you're standing as a couple. Something in you both is reaching for what's still possible. That matters. We want you to know we see it.

Come to the discovery call with your questions. Come with what's tender. Come with what you want for your relationship that you haven't said out loud in a while.

We'll feel into the fit together, walk through the six months, and answer everything you need to know.

You don't have to perform. You just have to come.

Choose with both hands.

โ€” Mike & Courtney

© The Sacred We ยท Mike Elliott & Courtney Wren ยท The 2:2 Container