Heard & Seen — A Sacred We Deep Dive · June 8

The Sacred We Deep Dives · Live with Mike & Courtney

Heard & Seen.

How to truly meet each other

A 90-minute deep dive for couples ready to hear and see one another.

For couples and those wanting to call in more aligned partnership.

Monday · June 8, 2026 6:00 – 7:30 PM Pacific Online $97

For years, you've been trying to be heard.

You've shared. You've been vulnerable. You've tried — in your own way, in your own words — to tell your partner what hurts, what you need, who you actually are underneath all of it.

And every time you do, something happens. They get defensive. Or they make it about them. Or they pull away further. Or they get angry. And you're left thinking: I can't keep living with this part of me not being heard.

On the other side, you ache to be seen. Not for what you do. Not for what you accomplish. For your essence. The light underneath. And you can feel that your partner is missing it — even when they're trying.

You both love each other. And you're both exhausted.

What if the story you're telling yourself — that your partner can't hear or see you — is actually: I don't know how to share in a way that I can be heard. And I don't know how my partner needs me to share so they can see me.

The Heard & Seen Framework.

Two movements. One guided practice. The map for how both of you can be heard and seen — in the same room, at the same time.

Movement One

The Invitation.

There's a way to share that draws your partner closer instead of pushing them further. Not the demand. Not the correction. The invitation — embodied, claimed, magnetic — that makes being heard possible.

For when you're the one sharing what's tender.

Movement Two

The Banks.

The somatic capacity to hold space when your partner shares — to be the banks of the river so they don't get washed away. Built in the body, not in the head.

For when you're the one holding space.

We don't teach. We practice.

It's somatic.

As somatic therapists, we know information doesn't change a marriage. Embodiment does. We work in the nervous system, the shared relational field, the felt sense — not in the story.

You'll actually do it.

Every Sacred We Deep Dive includes a guided practice. You won't just learn the framework — you'll move it through your body. Together, or solo if you're calling partnership in.

Two inches wide. Two miles deep.

One specific pain point. One specific reframe. One specific map. We don't sprawl. We descend. You leave with one thing that can change the next conversation you have.

You can get information from AI. This is a lived experience.

What happens in the room.

01 A teaching — two inches wide, two miles deep on the dynamic that keeps couples from hearing and seeing one another.
02 A story — from our marriage, or from a couple we've held in our work, that brings the framework alive.
03 The full Heard & Seen Framework. The map.
04 A guided somatic practice. You do it. Live. With your partner, or solo if you're calling partnership in.
05 Closing sound bites — the phrases you carry home with you for the next conversation, and the one after that.

Come if any of this is you.

You love each other — and you've been stuck in the same loop for longer than either of you wants to admit.
You've been the partner trying to be heard, doing it every way you know how, and watching it land as defense, distance, or shutdown.
You've been the partner trying to hold space — and feeling like you're failing, or losing yourself, or both.
You're calling in conscious partnership, and you want to learn the dance before it begins.
Your partner isn't ready yet — and you're coming on your own to bring the practice home.

Mike & Courtney.

We're partners — in life, in parenting, in this work. We didn't build The Sacred We from theory. We built it from the ground we were standing on.

Courtney is a relational somatic therapist with seventeen years in the field, and she holds the depth, the nervous system, and the mystical thread. Mike is a relationship coach and the masculine presence in the room — holding the structure, the directness, the ground.

Together, we host The Sacred We Podcast, lead retreats and intensives, and walk with couples in our most intimate work — the 2:2 container.

These Deep Dives are the doorway into the work.

Reserve your seat.

Date

Monday
June 8, 2026

Time

6:00 – 7:30 PM
Pacific Time

Length

90 minutes
Live, together

Where

Online · Zoom
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Investment

$97

Single payment · Replay included

Come exactly as you are. Bring your partner if they're with you, or come alone and bring the practice home.

Reserve your seat — $97

Single payment. No subscription. Your seat is held the moment you reserve.

See you in the room.

— Mike & Courtney